The other night while having a few drinks and some edibles with the homies we did a little catching up. Seeing how we are all so busy in life its hard to get us all together in one day so we usually start off by asking about each other’s dating lives. The weird thing about … More Dating, the 1,2,3’s
So, funny story, there’s this dude I know that hangs in the same circle as myself. We have all the same friends and have been in the same places from time to time. Why is it me and this dude have met literally several times and still find ourselves engaging in first time introductions? I … More First Impressions..again
What’s good readers, any of you still around? Kidding! Thank you all for continuing to follow this blog even after months of hiatus. I promise to be more present and consistent with new content and visuals from here on out. In a previous post I mentioned I would be putting more time into this website, … More I’m back!
Yo, so its been a minute and I’ve been busy. Thank you readers for being patient and not going in on me for being so tardy with my posts. The last 4 months have been real and like most of you, 2017 was a shitty ass year for me. With that being said, its a … More New year… New me?
Recently I had a conversation with my best friend Chris who lives in Newark, NJ. Like most of our conversations Chris usually tells me where I am wrong in whatever situation I just currently happen to be a part of. In this most recent event I explained to him how I felt some type of … More Friend Rule Book?
Lately the topic of age and “acting your age” has come up in conversations between my friends and I. LA is a very ageist, “ageismed” society. I’ve witnessed people be discriminated against for jobs or just for sake of conversations just for being too old or too young to someone or to what society sees … More “Acting your age”
I remember when I was about 10 or 11 and my God parents (a white lesbian couple believe it or not) were about to take me on a trip to backwoods North Carolina for a family wedding. My grand-mom sat me down and talked to me about racism. It’s crazy because all I kept thinking … More Racism in 2017
As we all know, your boy is now single. Not a whole lot has been going on since the break up honestly. I’m still a little butt hurt about us not being together and I still go through that “damn I miss this and damn I miss that” about my baby mood but all in … More Accepting it.. Do we get back out there or chill?
As an adult have you ever tried to stretch $20 to hold you through a whole week? Have you ever had to bow out of some plans with friends because you just can’t afford to kick it? You ever been on a date and you calculated how much money you were able to spend on … More Adult Money Struggles (AMS)